More Profile Observations

I just love looking at profiles of men who list their body type as “average” when they are fat.  When you have pictures of yourself with a double chin and a big round shape body and head and twice the width of your buddy standing next to you, you are not average.  Pffft.  At least I’m honest in my profile.
Another random observation on profiles of men – why do you have to have photos of yourself surrounded by 10 chicks?  This is more common than you might think.  Of course it’s usually at some bar or show or beach or Vegas or something of that nature.  A lot of the time it’s clearly the waitresses or the eye candy girls at the expo you attended, etc. or just some random girls at the bar or beach.  Or even if they are friends, does EVERY picture of you have to be a picture of you surrounded by girls?  I don’t get it.  That’s how you want to portray yourself on a dating site “looking for a great girl to take walks with and spending my life with?” 
That’s cool you were with your buddies and having fun and taking pics and all that, but posting those on a dating site where you say you want a LTR?  Uh… that would be like me posting my old photos of me surrounded by the Chippendales with their hands on me.  Or nothing but just pictures of me surrounded by guys at the military base or something.  Yet, I’m a nice girl who is deep and looking for something special.  *rolls eyes*
A guy with “friends” is okay.  It’s obvious in those pictures if the girls are friends because there is usually a mixture of men and women in the pics.  Or the guy will say at the bottom of the pic “Me and my sisters” which those are nice.  But those others… am I supposed to think you are this worldly stud or something and think, “Oh yeah I gotta date this playa!”  Fail.


Graph Jam continues to make me laugh out loud.  This is too funny.  Oh man.  That hits the nail on the head with Biden.

Lay All Your Love On Me

I really like all ABBA music and I always seem to hear a song that I forgot about by them.  Tonight the movie Mamma Mia! is on and I forgot about the really cute scene between the bride and groom to be, on the beach where they sing Lay All Your Love On Me.  I like how they made it into a duet too.  Really LOVE the lyrics in this one.  I’m feeling it.


I wasn’t jealous before we met
Now every man that I see is a potential threat
And I’m possessive it isn’t nice
You’ve heard me saying that smoking was my only vice
But now it isn’t true
Now everything is new
And all I’ve learned has overturned
I beg of you

Don’t go wasting your emotion
Lay all your love on me

It was like shooting a sitting duck
A little small-talk, a smile and baby, I was stuck
I still don’t know what you’ve done with me
A grown-up woman should never fall so easily
I feel a kind of fear
When I don’t have you near
I skip my pride
I beg you dear

Don’t go wasting your emotion
Lay all your love on me
Don’t go sharing your devotion
Lay all your love on me

I’ve had a few little love affairs
They didn’t last very long
And they’ve been pretty scarce
I used to think that was sensible
It makes the truth even more incomprehensible

‘Cause everything is new
And everything is new
And all I’ve learned has overturned
What can I do?

Don’t go wasting your emotion…

And here is the ABBA version of course.

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More To Love

They have a new version of the bachelor this year.  The people are plus sized.  I like this and not just because I’m a thick chick but because the average American woman is a size 14/16 and NOT a size 2, which is the average size of reality TV women. 
TV, movies, magazines, and all media seem to want to push what THEY think YOU SHOULD think is attractive.  Brainwashing.  The media fails to understand that all people have different tastes and what is attractive to them.  It’s sad too because they do so much brainwashing to people (especially men) that bigger is unattractive to the point of men (and women) should be embarrassed or ashamed to be with someone who isn’t the perfect Ken or Barbie.  
I even heard on a morning radio show one day these “skinny” women calling in and saying that men don’t like “fat chicks.”  Now that may be true for some but after those comments the radio station was flooded with calls from women on the bigger side saying how many men they attract and get attention from.  Some of the callers were also men calling in saying they loved plus sized women.  They liked thick legs, asses and curves.  The men calling in were all different races – white, black, Hispanic, etc.
I’ve actually been on both sides of the scale.  I’ve been the Barbie doll.  I had no problem getting attention from men or having dates.  I have been and now a plus sized girl.  I have had no problem getting attention from men or having dates at this size either.  Here was an interesting article I posted not long ago on the subject and how bigger girls get a lot more action than you think – even MORE than the thin girls.  Do I attract every man at this size?  No.  Did I attract every man as a Barbie Doll size?  No.
I think a lot of people out there would be very, very surprised at just how many men out there like thick women.  When I put out a dating personal ad where I was specific about my size, I was flooded with emails.  On the dating sites I’m a member of, my profiles describe me physically and includes various pictures of myself.  I get lots of emails on those too.  These men all vary in age, race and education.  Some are blue collar workers and others have PhD’s.  Some of these men have athletic builds, average builds and plus sized builds.  It’s all over the map.
I think a lot of these men are not embarrassed and don’t give a rats ass about what “society” thinks is normal and attractive but on the flip side I think there are a lot of men who are in the closet – they love bigger women but don’t really publicize it because of fear of being made fun of because society says that’s not cool.  I’m friends with a guy that I used to work with who confided in me one day that he was really, really attracted to plus sized women but he married the trophy wife.  He told me how unhappy he was in his marriage (and no he wasn’t trying to bed me – he was a good friend confiding in me).  When I asked him why he was married to someone he was unhappy with he told me that his friends and even some family members make fun of fat people and would be embarrassed if they saw him with the type of women he was attracted to.  He also thought that would hinder him in his success.  Having the perfect job and promotions meant also having the perfect looking trophy wife, etc.  Yes that seems ridiculous but it’s probably more true than you think.  It’s sad to me that a man marries what he thinks society deems acceptable and be in a miserable marriage his whole life vs. being truly happy and not caring what others think.
Hey, I get that some people out there don’t dig it.  There are certain physical traits I don’t go for either.  That’s totally fine and totally normal.  Everyone has different tastes and different ideas of what is sexy and attractive.  I am just sick of the media telling us what we should find attractive according to them.  About time we had a show that showcases this.  I missed the first episode but maybe I can catch it online.  I need to tape it for the rest of the season because I really am interested.  All the other bachelor and bachelorette seasons I had NO interest in what so ever. 

Can We Please Stop With the Race Card?

ThatsRacistIt’s so over.  I’m so sick of people using race as an excuse for everything.  People who continue to do this are the ones that keep this country racially divided!  Yes you!  The ones who call people racist.  This whole thing with the police arresting Obama’s buddy and Obama jumping to his own conclusions is just ridiculous.  I can’t believe a man who is the President of the United States of America said the comments he did without knowing all the facts.  He wasn’t there.  He just saw his friend, who happens to be black, arrested and jumped to conclusions.  Police officers were doing their job no matter if you are black, white, yellow or red.  Whitey gets arrested every damn day in this country and by some officers who happen to be black.  Is that racism? 
Here are some people that work with the officer in question and passionately defend him and wow, they happen to be black.  But I guess others would call them uncle Toms.  But that’s not racist is it?  Pretty interesting towards the end of the video when the lady had some comments about Obama’s comments.  Barry is losing the re-election one vote at a time.
I’m not saying there isn’t racism or that there are not racist jerks out there because there are and most likely always will be.  But the more people point fingers and say “that’s racist” for every damn thing that just happens to involve a black person when race wasn’t even a factor just floors me.  People like Al Sharpton, Jesse Jackson and yes, now Obama are the ones keeping us racially divided.  Whitey liberals are guilty of it too.  They like keeping everyone angry and divided so they can pretend to be on their side and get the votes.  Give me a break.  They also like to use race for their arguments and they fall flat.
Here is a perfect example of that with a white democrat female senator (from California of course) trying to use the race card on a black man and he turns the tables on her.  Basically calls her out about quoting other black groups who don’t agree with him to make her point when color has NOTHING to do with talking about energy.  At least this military vet saw right through that shizz.  Good for him!!!!!!  He was absolutely right!!!!!
I’m also really sick and tired of people labeling Republicans as racist too.  The Bill Maher show was on discussing this whole thing and he went on to say how pretty much all Republicans are racists.  That the only time they notice racism is when they claim “reverse racism.”  What complete bullshit.  I normally refuse to watch that piece of crap show but it happened to come on after something else I watched and thought, ok, let me just see if they have a decent discussion.  After he said that I got disgusted and flipped the channel.  I really wish HBO would cancel that assclown and bring Dennis Miller back.

Girl Conversation – No Neck

Her:  That hair and cankle post you put on your blog was funny.
Me:  Damn being cursed with that shizz.  Cankles, hair and my dad’s no-neck too!  I want a neck like Audrey Hepburn.
Her:  *laughs*
Me:  There has got to be a way to lengthen my neck dude.
Her:  You could get those metal rings that go around your neck like those tribes.
Me:  Does that shit work?
Her:  Yeah, they just keep adding a hoop.
Me:  I would just want another one to two inches of length.  How would I explain it to people – wearing the rings?  And job interviews?
Her:  You could wear turtle necks.
Me:  *laughs*